7 Tips to have “The Talk” with a Senior

7 Tips to have “The Talk” with a Senior

Do they prefer tea or coffee?

Do they prefer tea or coffee?

Last week the Tips2Seniors blog discussed: Seniors in Denial, Relying on Friends and Family.” Every single one of us knows a senior who is struggling in their home. Some seniors silently suffer and others have a whole network of support from family and friends.

Ultimately when a loved one or neighbor tries to have “The Talk” with the senior it can have five typical results:

  1. Denial: “I am not ready yet.  I am just fine living in my own home.”
  2. Shutting down: “I don’t want to discuss this.”
  3. Anger: “Why are you questioning my ability to be independent? Leave me alone.”
  4. Confusion: “Don’t you want to come see me everyday? I don’t understand.”
  5. Acceptance: “I understand that I have become a burden. Maybe it’s time to look at what my senior housing options could be. Will you help me look?”

In my 17-year senior housing career, sons, daughters and spouses have asked me the same question, how do I have “The Talk.”

Here are my 7 Tips to have “The Talk.”

  1. Set the stage for “The Talk”. You know if it is better to have “The Talk” in public or private with your senior.
    1. Public talk: Take them out to eat in a public location (so they can’t yell at you or they can’t escape into their bedroom).
    2. Private talk: Buy or make your seniors their favorite cookies. Serve the favorite cookies with their special coffee or tea at their dining room table.
  1. Tell your senior how much you love them.
  1. Then share your concerns, be very factual. Such as:
  • You have fallen twice.
  • You missed your medications three times this week.
  • I come over here every day to help you.
  1. Explain your fears in loving detail. Every day when I call you my heart stops till you answer the phone on the third ring. I can’t handle the stress. It is making me sick with worry. I can’t keep this up. If something happens to me, you will be in jeopardy. (It is okay to cry and show your emotions. This is very emotional.)
  1. Recommend a solution to explore senior housing options together. I know you don’t want to move but it will be healthier for you and healthier for me. Let’s do this together.
  1. There is a book that can teach us how to find a great retirement community versus a mediocre one. Here’s the book, it is called, “Your Senior Housing Options.”

Depending on your senior, read it to them or you each read it on your own. Use the tips and advice in the book to find the best senior housing arrangement.

  1. Schedule a luncheon tour at a local retirement community that you have vetted with the tips from the book, “Your Senior Housing Options.”

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Give the gift of knowledge: “Your Senior Housing Options,” is an easy read with illustrations. It walks seniors and their adult children through the costs and pitfalls of navigating senior housing and includes the “7 Deadly Sins of Searching for Senior Housing Options.”

News Flash: Diane Masson’s interview on Generation Bold Radio broadcasted on Sunday, December 6th on the BizTalkRadio Network syndicated to 33 stations across the country.

Diane Masson is a senior living expert who has authored two 5-star rated books sold through Amazon. Her new book is an all-encompassing answer guide for seniors called, “Your Senior Housing Options,” designed to help seniors navigate choices quickly. The second book was written for senior living professionals called, “Senior Housing Marketing – How To Increase Your Occupancy and Stay Full.” Reach out to her through her website: Tips2Seniors.com and read the weekly blog.

Who IS Your Competition?

Who IS Your Competition?

Senior Living CompetitionSounds simple – right?  It’s all the companies that provide the same services that you do.  Wrong!  It is so much more than your similar competitors down the street or in your particular industry.

Let’s just use the example of your front desk/concierge/greeter/receptionist.  Whether you are in the hotel business, retail trade or provide senior housing, each customer compares how he or she is treated when they enter your establishment.  So Wal-Mart, The Ritz-Carlton and a Continuing Care Retirement Community are competing.

Customers may call two or three different types of companies in a single day.  Each phone call either provided a great phone interaction and a solution for the customer or some frustration.  Maybe they called to make dinner reservations, a doctor appointment or inquired about their parent’s future care at an assisted living community.  How many rings did it take for someone to answer the phone?  Was their voice clear, distinct and friendly?  Did it sound like they were smiling through the phone or a bit haggard?

A FedEx delivery from an online store, a pizza delivery, a taxi transporting someone to the airport and a driver from a retirement community taking a senior to and from a doctor checkup are all competition.  Was the delivery person friendly and were they on time?  Did they leave the package in the rain or was the pizza cold?

Take time to work with you team on how you can provide better customer service.   Can you think of more examples of competitors who don’t initially seem like competitors?

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Diane Twohy Masson is currently writing a new book for seniors on how to select senior housing options.  Her first book, “Senior Housing Marketing – How to Increase Your Occupancy and Stay Full,” is available at Amazon.com with a five star rating.  Masson continues to set move in records as the regional marketing director of two debt-free Continuing Care Retirement Communities in Southern California – Freedom Village in Lake Forest and The Village in Hemet, California.  Her mom’s struggle with dementia is inspiring Diane to pen a third book to support adult children.

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Guarantee of Care For Life?

Guarantee of Care For Life?

Guarantee of Care for LifeMany senior living communities say, “We will take care of you for the rest of your life.”  Really?  What if a senior legitimately runs out of his or her resources?  Can they still stay for life?  Is it a marketing spiel or a real guarantee?  What promise is really written in the resident’s contract?  Do they offer at least three levels of care including skilled nursing?

Senior living communities can talk about a “fund” to help residents or a “Good Samaritan Fund.”  My own mom was lucky enough to benefit from this type of fund.  I never dreamed in a million years that my mom would live in a higher level of care like assisted living for so many years (seven to be exact).  In the middle of those seven years, my mom ran out of her resources.  She has social security, an annuity, a pension and a savings account.  Her savings account depleted down to $2,000.

Thank goodness my mom’s Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) had a Good Sam Fund that was developed out of generous donations.  The little known fact was that only 10 seniors could benefit from the fund at any given time.  My mom was number 10.  I never knew if there was a resident whose number was 11 or higher that never received financial help.

Now, I know about two CCRC’s in CA that offer a Guarantee of Care for life.  It is straight up and clearly written in the contracts at Freedom Village in Lake Forest and The Village in Hemet.

An attorney compared CCRC contracts in Orange County and determined that all were not equal in the guarantee of care for life.  Some are straight up and others offer, “A guarantee of care for life,” but add three extra words following this statement in the contract… those three extra words are, “At our option.”

“At our option,” sounds a lot like a Good Sam Fund that has a limited amount of resident users.  What do you think?

Please share your successes, failures or comment below to join the conversation and interact with other senior living professionals on what is currently being effective to increase occupancy on a nationwide basis.

Diane Twohy Masson is the author of “Senior Housing Marketing – How to Increase Your Occupancy and Stay Full,” available at Amazon.com with a 5-star rating.  The book is required reading at George Mason University as a part of its marketing curriculum.  Within this book, the author developed a sales & marketing method with 12 keys to help senior living providers increase their occupancy.   Masson developed this expertise as a marketing consultant, sought-after blogger for senior housing and a regional marketing director of continuing care retirement communities in several markets.  She has also been a corporate director of sales and a mystery shopper for independent living, assisted living, memory care and skilled care nursing communities in multiple states.  Currently, Masson is setting move-in records as the regional marketing director of two debt-free Continuing Care Retirement Communities in Southern California – Freedom Village in Lake Forest and The Village in Hemet, California.  Interestingly, this career started when she was looking for a place for her own mom and helped her loved one transition through three levels of care.

 

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6 “New Year Keys” For Occupancy Momentum!

6 “New Year Keys” For Occupancy Momentum!

Kick Start Your Senior Living Sales Momentum

Kick Start Your Senior Living Sales Momentum

Kick start your sales momentum in 2014!  Here are 6 keys that your senior living team can do simultaneously or add one technique per month to increase occupancy.

  1. Decide to be proactive instead of reactive with your retirement community’s database.  Set a goal of talking to the entire database this year.  Make so many calls per week and per month.  Call back every tour the next day.
  2. Create a new “wow” tour and teach other department heads the new tour.
  3. Study and learn a new closing technique.
  4. Ask for the deposit on every tour!
  5. Build strong relationships with prospects by caring about the senior’s best interests and not your paycheck.  They will feel the difference.
  6. Generate new avenues for more prospective seniors to learn about and come to your senior living community.

Start the New Year with excitement, learn a new technique and hug your team!  Group hug for everyone!

Please share your successes, failures or comment below to join the conversation and interact with other senior living professionals on what is currently being effective to increase occupancy on a nationwide basis.

Diane Twohy Masson is the author of “Senior Housing Marketing – How to Increase Your Occupancy and Stay Full,” available at Amazon.com with a 5-star rating.  The book is required reading at George Mason University as a part of its marketing curriculum.  Within this book, the author developed a sales & marketing method with 12 keys to help senior living providers increase their occupancy.   Masson developed this expertise as a marketing consultant, sought-after blogger for senior housing and a regional marketing director of continuing care retirement communities in several markets.  She has also been a corporate director of sales and a mystery shopper for independent living, assisted living, memory care and skilled care nursing communities in multiple states.  Most recently Masson was recruited to consult for two debt-free Continuing Care Retirement Communities in Southern California – Freedom Village in Lake Forest and The Village in Hemet, California.  Interestingly, this career started when she was looking for a place for her own mom and helped her loved one transition through three levels of care.

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How Many Calls Does Your Senior Living Team Make Per Month (part 2)?

How Many Calls Does Your Senior Living Team Make Per Month (part 2)?

How Many Calls Does Your Senior Living Team Make Per Month (part 2)?There were such a variety of responses to “How Many Calls Does Your Senior Living Team Make Per Month,” I am choosing to expound with a more in-depth part 2.  Senior living sale professionals responded with call requirements from 20 calls an hour to 40 completed calls per week.  Someone else’s retirement community had mandated 53 connected calls per month.

Here is one response:

“Diane, I have enjoyed reading your blogs on seniors, which are informative with best practices.  This one on “How Many Calls A Month” made us gasp with the large number of calls a sales team is expected to make nowadays.  500 to 1,000+ calls a month must be only cold calling behind a closed door and doing nothing else like sales events, tours, refurbishment oversight, building relationships with future residents, community and church relations, follow up on leads and inquiries, application process, and administrative team projects.”  Nancy

My response: These calls were not cold calls, so here is a more detailed explanation.

My example in part one had a marketing director with 469 calls and her two team mates with 340 and 315 calls respectively.  These sales calls included: call-ins, voice-to-voice call-outs and left messages.  I believe if someone leaves a great message, seniors will call back.  Our requirement is 75 calls a week or 300 per month.  This is not one isolated goal.  Another goal is 20 initial or repeat tours per month.  This tour goal does not include post-closing appointments after a deposit has been taken.

Yes, these senior living sales people have other responsibilities including three events per month (all day), responding to Internet inquiries, weekly strategy meetings, book reviews, overseeing apartment renovations for their clients, and managing his or her move-ins (paperwork, relationship building, setting up health assessments, family tours and etc.).

If you don’t have sales and occupancy goals, then no one has a pinnacle to reach.  This team produced five Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) sales in the last eight days.  They have hit the quarterly move-in goals this year and are currently close to hitting the fourth quarter goal and going to Disneyland.  This year, they have produced the most CCRC move-ins at their retirement community since 2005.

Please share your call, tour and move-in quotas to converse with other senior living sales professionals.  Let’s hear about the variety of quotas out there.  It will also be interesting to know if you are hitting your move-in goals based on your calling goals.

Please share your success, failures or comment below to join the conversation and interact with other senior living professionals on what is currently being effective to increase occupancy on a nationwide basis.

Diane Twohy Masson is the author of “Senior Housing Marketing – How to Increase Your Occupancy and Stay Full,” available at Amazon.com with a 5-star rating.  The book is required reading at George Mason University as a part of its marketing curriculum.  Within this book, the author developed a sales & marketing method with 12 keys to help senior living providers increase their occupancy.   Masson developed this expertise as a marketing consultant, sought-after blogger for senior housing and a regional marketing director of continuing care retirement communities in several markets.  She has also been a corporate director of sales and a mystery shopper for independent living, assisted living, memory care and skilled care nursing communities in multiple states.  Most recently Masson was recruited to consult for two debt-free Continuing Care Retirement Communities in Southern California – Freedom Village in Lake Forest and The Village in Hemet, California.  Interestingly, this career started when she was looking for a place for her own mom and helped her loved one transition through three levels of care.

© Marketing 2 Seniors| Diane Twohy Masson 2013 All Rights Reserved. No part of this blog post may be reproduced, copied, modified or adapted, without the prior written consent of the author, unless otherwise indicated for stand-alone materials. You may share this website and or it’s content by any of the following means: 1. Using any of the share icons at the bottom of each page. 2. Providing a back-link or the URL of the content you wish to disseminate. 3. You may quote extracts from the website with attribution to Diane Masson CASP and link https://www.marketing2seniors.net For any other mode of sharing, please contact the author Diane Masson.